Know what you're looking for

In order to find what you're looking for I've learned you have to know what you're looking for.  Here's the beginning of what I'm looking for.

My ideal boyfriend/husband would:

 

 - Be Honest
 - Be Thoughtful and courteous
 - Be a good communicator
 - Have his own mind and opinion and respect mine
 - Have his own interests and respect mine
 - Be spontaneous
 - Be patient
 - Have empathy for others
 - Be respectful of me and my feelings as well as those of the people in my life
 - Be able to compromise
 - Understand that  I am strong and independent but know that even I need     

   support sometimes
 - Not feel the need to 'fix' all my problems
 - Accept me as I am
 - Like dancing
 - Like reading
 - Like to watch movies together curled up on the couch with a bowl of munchies
 - Not change the music in the car when I'm driving
 - Like giving and receiving hugs and kisses
 - Like the outdoors - including camping, hiking and canoeing
 - Support me in my goals and interests and allow me to support his
 - Like dogs
 - Like kids and be open to the idea of having children one day
 - Like travelling
 - Like back massages and enjoy giving them too
 - Not be a smoker
 - Not be dependent on alcohol, illegal drugs or porn
 - Not mind playing laser tag or running through corn mazes in the dark
 - Like adventures
 - Not mind being in front of a camera
 - Agree that some experiences in life are richer because they are shared with     

   someone
 - Not be a workaholic